No Truer Love
Jul. 24th, 2024 09:17 amWay back YEARS ago I used to own a pair of degus. Degus are South American ground squirrels, they look a lot like gerbils only way bigger, and the chew EVERYTHING. Also their tail skin will slough off if you pick them up by their tails, so like, don't do that. And you can keep two males together, they'll form a close bond, unlike with most rodent species. They are also very gentle and sweet and make really good pets. I adored them.
Mine were named Bedrock and Granite, and I had them for almost ten years. Bedrock passed away first, which was sad enough, but after that Granite started to get really depressed. He moped around and went off his food, was barely drinking even. But there wasn't much I could DO because I had gotten them SO LONG AGO and from a store an hour's drive away, and had no way of going out and just buying another degu to keep him company.
BUT at the same time, I had Ichigo. Ichigo was the last of my mice, plain brown, nothing special really, but she had been living on her own for some time and she was about a year-and-a-half old, getting up there for a mouse. She was doing fine on her own, but I knew she must get bored because she would chew mindlessly at the bars of her cage or stare into space for endless spans of time.
So. Knowing it was probably a bad idea, I carefully took Ichigo out of her cage and put her in the terrarium with Granite.
She explored the place while Granite sat up on top of the wooden cabin I had in there for him, just watching her. Then he decided to go introduce himself-- and that was that. The two of them absolutely fell in love with each other. They did everything together. Ichigo got Granite eating again, they built a nest together, they played together, it was downright AMAZING to watch.
Six months later, though, Ichigo reached the end of her life. I got up one morning and she was laying out by the food dish and couldn't seem to move. I watched Granite desperately try to get her up and fail each time. Then he started bringing bits of the nest out to her, tucking them in around her where she was laying. It was absolutely heart-wrenching to watch these tiny animals love so, so deeply even as they lost so, so much.
After Ichigo was gone, I purchased another mouse for Granite, but it was too young and had too much energy. It annoyed him and he didn't want anything to do with it. He didn't last long after that. He stopped eating again, and one day I found him dead in the terrarium.
But I learned SO MUCH about an animal's capacity for love from watching Granite and Ichigo. It's something I'll never, ever forget.
Mine were named Bedrock and Granite, and I had them for almost ten years. Bedrock passed away first, which was sad enough, but after that Granite started to get really depressed. He moped around and went off his food, was barely drinking even. But there wasn't much I could DO because I had gotten them SO LONG AGO and from a store an hour's drive away, and had no way of going out and just buying another degu to keep him company.
BUT at the same time, I had Ichigo. Ichigo was the last of my mice, plain brown, nothing special really, but she had been living on her own for some time and she was about a year-and-a-half old, getting up there for a mouse. She was doing fine on her own, but I knew she must get bored because she would chew mindlessly at the bars of her cage or stare into space for endless spans of time.
So. Knowing it was probably a bad idea, I carefully took Ichigo out of her cage and put her in the terrarium with Granite.
She explored the place while Granite sat up on top of the wooden cabin I had in there for him, just watching her. Then he decided to go introduce himself-- and that was that. The two of them absolutely fell in love with each other. They did everything together. Ichigo got Granite eating again, they built a nest together, they played together, it was downright AMAZING to watch.
Six months later, though, Ichigo reached the end of her life. I got up one morning and she was laying out by the food dish and couldn't seem to move. I watched Granite desperately try to get her up and fail each time. Then he started bringing bits of the nest out to her, tucking them in around her where she was laying. It was absolutely heart-wrenching to watch these tiny animals love so, so deeply even as they lost so, so much.
After Ichigo was gone, I purchased another mouse for Granite, but it was too young and had too much energy. It annoyed him and he didn't want anything to do with it. He didn't last long after that. He stopped eating again, and one day I found him dead in the terrarium.
But I learned SO MUCH about an animal's capacity for love from watching Granite and Ichigo. It's something I'll never, ever forget.